Why 'Holding Space' Is More Than Just a Viral Meme - Mental Health Experts Explain Its Benefits
Ariana Grande & Cynthia Erivo from Wicked
A viral moment emerged during the "Wicked" press tour when journalist Tracy E. Gilchrist mentioned "holding space" for Cynthia Erivo's performance of "Defying Gravity," sparking widespread interest in the concept.
"Holding space" means being fully present and attentive to others or yourself without trying to fix, judge, or minimize emotions. It involves:
- Listening deeply and maintaining presence
- Allowing emotions to process naturally
- Avoiding the urge to offer solutions
- Creating a safe environment for emotional expression
Mental health benefits of holding space include:
- Reduced stress and anxiety
- Relief from loneliness
- Stronger relationships
- Improved emotional resilience
- Enhanced self-awareness
- Better stress regulation
For marginalized groups, holding space serves as a powerful form of self-care by:
- Resisting pressure to conform
- Affirming personal worth
- Supporting emotional authenticity
- Building community connection
Research supports the practice's effectiveness:
- A 2021 meta-analysis showed it may lower blood pressure
- A 2018 study found it reduces work stress and depression
- Multiple studies link it to improved mental health outcomes
The practice aligns with mindfulness principles and can be incorporated through various activities like meditation, walking, or listening to music. Mental health professionals emphasize that holding space isn't selfish but rather an essential component of both personal and community well-being.
This intentional practice of presence and acceptance creates deeper connections, fosters trust, and supports emotional healing for both individuals and communities.